Trying to help someone be happier is an extremely difficult undertaking
– and a big gamble. Sometimes you simply have to let people live the
way they choose to live — even if you’re positive that they’re not
getting all the happiness they deserve. Encourage them whenever it
seems appropriate and include them in social events, of course — but
make sure that your insistent efforts in this area are not actually
making someone you care about feel worse.

–> pantes aja, ya udah you are free to fly with your own wings.